Deacons and Bobble-head Dolls

6 11 2009

This past Wednesday at Plunge the student got a chance to vote for Deacons. I have been teaching on leadership for the past month and this was culmination. Below is summary of my lesson and a copy of the prayer sheet. If you have any questions click here to send me an email.

Becoming the Bobble-head

1Timothy 3:8-13

Jesus Bobble HeadSome of you heard my sermon on Sunday and if you looked in the bulletin you found a picture of the Jesus Bobble Head (see right). I decided to go ahead and buy one… I know sacrilegious! … I can not get past the image of Jesus as our “yes” man. I think that is how so many of us treat him—not asking what HE wants, but asking Him if what WE want is ok! We give requests for friends, family, ourselves – but rarely do we ask God what He wants for our lesson – we just kept listing our thoughts…

In reality we need to be His bobble head doll, whatever He asks, we say “yes”!

In high school God began to move in my heart and He called me to work in the church. Of course I already had plan for my life. I was accepted, full ride and all, to multiple engineering programs. The school to which I was set on going had a list of brags and one of them was that average starting salary for their graduates was 49 thousand plus benefits. This seemed like a ton of money and I was spending it already in my mind (not accounting for any bills – I suppose I would still live at home… what an engineer). Of course I knew the church would not quite pay as well…

So I began to make deals with God, “I will always serve you in church. I can be a deacon. Think how much I will tithe – I mean I am already tithing my marina job earnings, so I will continue to tithe…” On and on, round and round, until God made it evident – this is MY plan, are you coming or not?

And here I am. It is has been eight years since I graduated college. I now have a master’s degree. But I still do not come close to that salary. God does not call us to give us our heart’s desires. He calls us to follow, to make us men and women who say “yes” to His plan… and this is the quality God wants in His leaders. Not talents or abilities, but servants who follow wherever He leads!

Turning to the church, here it is in brief (since the students already heard and I assume the adults already know!)…

Decisions in our church are not made by the ministers (sure message topics and sometimes ministry events), but hiring and firing or building or money or … are all made by church members.

This is different than many churches who are pastor lead or elder lead, we are lead by the congregation. This structure could be compared to our nation’s congress. We vote to elect representative and senators who vote on our behalf in Washington. In the church we elect deacons who represent us. Who make decision for us (though most decisions will also come before the church at large, the form of the decisions are decided by the deacons).

But a big difference between the church and our government, the government is elected to represent us, just as deacons. BUT unlike politicians, who seek our favor, we elect deacons to seek the will of God and to lead our church on HIS path!

On Wednesday the students were given the chance to vote for deacons. They separated for a time of prayer (Click here to download the Deacon Prayer Sheet) and then they voted for deacons. I of course went over all the details (stressing membership, voting only once, and especially encouraging them to vote for those they could trust to lead us to Christ – unconcerned with getting to the 17 limit, four or five would be great, as long as the student knew their heart, and many other details).

The students were very excited and took it very seriously, which was awesome to see.

The only hiccup was that I had not explained the write-in portion of the ballot. A few students choose to write in a name and decided I would be good deacon! Which made me laugh and is nice that they considered me, but I had to break the news that a minister can not be a deacon (really we are not even supposed to speak in the deacon meetings!).

I know parents have received a series of emails on all of this. I thank you all for being so supportive. It was a great night, with so many voting for the very first time. I pray and hope that this will be a small step to the students getting involved with BIG church (not huddling in a youth bubble)!





Kiwi Balloons

6 11 2009

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Before you forget the balloon boy saga—where parents staged there son floating away on a homemade helium balloon only to have him found hiding in the attic (see balloon image on the right, not the kiwi, silly). I just read another bizarre story this morning about parents who sent authorities searching for their infant. Only to find the girl in a cardboard box stuffed underneath the bed… seriously what are these people thinking. Certainly they are not sane, but is ten minutes of pitiful fame—when you are not revered buy reviled—is that moment of fame worth it?…

What is inside us that would drive someone to such lengths for attention?

Closer to reality I was in Cold Stone buying coffee lovers, with pecans rather than almonds, and in front of me was a college age couple. The girl was pretty and all done up for their mini-date. But the guy was not impressive. He was unshaven—not in a rugged way, but in a “did you lose your razor last week.”  Plus, I am not 100% sure he had showered and all he did was talk about himself… yet the girl fawned over him! (Which is so common. I mean, I glad Meg did not demand more, but ladies, you should! At least demand he brings his bible… I mean look at the numbers!)

What IS inside of us? What causes this need for attention?

                                                                       

 

Just a reminder, this Sunday is the Final Day for the Can War Competition… The eighth grade guys have the lead, startling!, but no one is out of the competition – if the class will work together!

Can Wars Final Day Chart





Servants…

30 10 2009

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As I think about deacons I have pondered the passages of servant leaders in the gospels. You probably know the word deacon means servant in the Greek language (the language of the New Testament). Over time the word became a title of leadership in church—I suppose to remind that leaders in the church are servants (I am sure  this duel meaning quickly broke down, so that now we must now have two words, deacon and servant. Unfortunately when power is involved, service is often tossed our the window.)…

The passage in Mark declaring leader are to be servants ends with Jesus picking a child and stating, “Whoever receives one child like this in My name receives me”. I suppose I should know Bible—minister and all—but I was surprised to find this line at the end of Jesus’ discussion of servant leadership. Jesus often commanded us to love our neighbor and in so doing we love Him: feed the poor and you feed Him; heal the sick and you heal Him; defend the widow and fatherless…

When we choose leaders we often first look at talents and abilities—maybe their job position. We do not walk through the preschool building looking for leadership or head down to benevolence to find leaders. Sure there are leaders there, you will say, but not all of them—there are other things to consider…

But is there? … Is there anything beyond finding the ones who are with Jesus? …

                                                                       

can warsThis begins the last week for Can Wars – everything is due November 8th. So please bring in your items for benevolence… As we consider the passage above, it is both wonderful to consider that we are able to feed our savior (and haunting, if we do not act).

 

                                                                       

christmas fundraiserThe Christmas greenery fundraiser is also due next week (Nov 8th). So please remember to bring in your forms. The pick-up or delivery of the greenery will be December 6th (Boar’s Head Sunday).





Our Girls Playing

28 10 2009

I know this does not fit the Plunge theme, but it was so fun the other night…





Learning Curve…

23 10 2009

Phoebe and the Elephants

kanga's rooI suppose we do learn something new everyday… and while taking the girls to the zoo on Tuesday I discovered a new animal, the tree Kangaroo. Check out the picture or imagine Kanga’s Roo hanging out in a tree.

But the fact that I had never heard of tree kangaroos brought back a conversation on Sunday lunch. In the conversation some high school guys were discussing random facts. One mentioned how his dinosaur knowledge peaked at age sixth and now he could not remember anything. His brain was instead filled with derivatives and protoplasm…

All this led me to ask, why do we learn what we learn in school? I mean I graduated high school with five hours of calculus… for what? To balance my check book. What I could really use, at least on Tuesday, was a good zoology class. For that matter, where was the basic home repair class? That would save me a bundle more than Physics AP ever has!

Taking a step back, I am not railing against school or suggesting student should stop doing their homework. Instead I am pointing out the reality that school is part of the system, the beginning designed to propel us into the system of adult life. But it is an imperfect system. On a basic level this imperfection is seen in the reality that much of what we learn becomes useless after the test (hence 5th graders can outsmart adults). But there is a more fundamental flaw.

This system is designed around individual achievement and hence it creates winners and losers. More importantly, insiders, who are able to work the system, achieve success in the system, but outsiders are left as continual losers (hence systemic poverty).

My point? Realize that we are working in a system that is not God’s. Winners in the world’s system, arriving with the right house, family, and job, are not necessarily winners in life. Only those who live in the system of God can become a winner in life. So it is just as possible for the high school drop out to lead the successful life – the kingdom life (remember Christ was homeless).

Too often we use the wrong measuring sticks. Understand the child of God is not the best or brightest or wealthest… instead the child is the one who follows… where ever He may lead.

Just as I am, without one plea,
but that thy blood was shed for me,
and that thou bidst me come to thee,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.